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Why Does My Dog Always Want to Be Close to Me?
If you have ever wondered, “Why does my dog always lean on me?” or asked yourself, “Why does my dog sit on my feet?” you are not alone! For some dog parents, it might even feel like their dog wants to be as close as possible, no matter their size. Whether it is leaning against you, sitting on your feet, or snuggling right up, the answer? Well, it depends! Behavior always depends on the context.
Dog behavior is fascinating and complex, and the more we learn about our canine friends, the more we realize that there is rarely a one size fits all answer. As a professional dog behavior counselor, I can tell you that your dog might lean, sit, or cozy up to you for a variety of reasons. Here are the top 6 reasons why your dog might love to stay close:
1. Seeking Security
Dogs are social animals who thrive on a sense of safety and belonging. When your dog feels insecure or unsure, they may naturally gravitate toward their family unit, that is you! Being close to you, or even touching you, helps your dog feel protected and reassured. You are their safe space.
2. Offering Comfort
Have you ever had one of those days when your dog just will not leave your side? Whether you are feeling under the weather or just a bit stressed, your dog picks up on it. Laying close or right on top of you is your dog’s way of saying, “I am here for you.” They may not have words, but they sure know how to show love through their actions.
3. Being Protective
Dogs have a natural instinct to protect their family. Sometimes, when your dog senses potential danger or even just a change in the environment, they might place themselves between you and what they perceive as a threat. Even if it is just the mail carrier, your dog might feel the need to act as your personal bodyguard.
4. Guarding Their Treasure (That Is You!)
This one is a little different from protection. Sometimes, a dog views their favorite person as a prized resource worth guarding. Your lap, feet, or even just sitting next to you can be their way of saying, “This human is mine.” While it can be endearing, it is important to keep an eye on this behavior to make sure it does not become overly possessive.
5. Showing Love
Dogs are naturally loving and social creatures who enjoy forming close bonds. Curling up next to you or leaning against you is one of the most straightforward ways they let you know they care. They have probably also learned that snuggling often leads to extra belly rubs and kisses, which makes it a win for both of you!
6. Staying Warm
Who does not love a good cuddle to stay warm? Just like in puppyhood, when they would curl up with their littermates and mom, your dog might snuggle up to you to share body heat. Whether it is a chilly morning or just their way of feeling close, it is one of the sweetest ways they show they care.
Setting Boundaries When You Need Space
While it is heartwarming to know your dog wants to be close to you, sometimes you may want a little personal space. Teaching your dog an alternate behavior, like laying on a designated mat or bed, can help create boundaries while still making them feel secure. Start by rewarding your dog for going to their mat and gradually increase the time they stay there. You can also use cues like “go to your spot” or offer a favorite chew toy to encourage them to settle somewhere else. Remember, reinforcing positive behaviors with praise and treats will help your dog understand that relaxing on their own can be just as rewarding as snuggling up with you.
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When Snuggles Go a Little Too Far
While most of these behaviors are perfectly normal and even endearing, there are times when a dog’s protective or guarding instincts can get a bit out of hand. If your dog seems overly protective or shows guarding behavior around other people or animals, it is a good idea to reach out to a qualified dog behavior specialist. Early guidance can help you manage these behaviors before they escalate.
Does Your Dog Love to Lay on You? I would love to hear your stories! Why do you think your dog loves to snuggle up? Let me know in the comments.
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